I would be forced to read any article that included a sentence like "I was the only one who wasn't in my underwear." You've hooked me again, Bebe. Seriously, you must take care not to injure your back by lifting. I'm sure you know that there are patient transfer lifting devices that can be purchased which are used in care homes to save the backs of personal support workers, although I'm sure they aren't cheap. Please take care as you don't want to suffer with an injured back long after your mother is gone.